I noticed some people around here talking about the way thay look and how it effects them, so that thay cant find a partner or whatever. I just want to share my own expiriance with this "look" thing... Im 23 years old guy, every singel person who ever saw me said im looking great, i even met few guys that saw me as a threat near thair girlfreands and went abit aggresive with me.. But i must say: 1. i never considered myself as a good lookin 2. i never had a real relations 3. im suffering from this lonleyness in the same way you guys do Unfortunatley as far as i see it, the problem is not with the way we look but with the fact that we are unexpirianced and that is something i would like to talk with you guys about. It looks like the depressive state most of us in, is the thing that gives us the biggest problems, it is for me anyways. It effects the way we see ourselfs and others It effects the way we treat ourself and others It effects our self confidance and self esteem And just like you, i cant find a true love in my life and its so painfull that, just like you, i find it really hard to keep going. For me, love is the sort of thing that can force me to fight my demons without it im nothing and have nothing to fight for. And what can i do? What can we do??