omfg:blink: 75% of the time we can get along, the other is usually over the kids..... But the man is like freaking chinese water torture, he could nag the devil into insanity. Tried to talk with him last night, and ended up hanging up cause he was listening with his mouth. So now that I know both kids are out, thought I'd try to sort it out wit him, told him to shut up and listen, so while he's taking a big breath, I get my bit out and he starts rightup where he left off last night, and then throws in something new to boot. Thank goodness I could say///you are frustrating the crap out of me and I'll talk to you later. We had one of those passionate relationships and even with the phsyical part gone, we can still flare up and fight at a moments notice. I know my blessings, he's always there for the kids, we've helped each other out and yes its because he cares .....but he can make me crazy. Theres my silver lining, i don't have to live with him anymore.