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Today was a terrible day

Jsinjin

SF Supporter
#1
Got into an argument with my spouse this morning and spent the day shaking, feeling bad, wishing I wasn't alive and contemplating bad things. It was a terrible day. When this happens I ache and feel horrible. I can't even be tired I feel so bad. I don't want to die but I wish I wasn't alive.
 

Champagne

✯✯ Heart of an angel ✯✯
Staff Alumni
SF Supporter
#2
Hello @Jsinjin

I am sorry to hear you feel terrible today, that's never good :( but glad you posted here, was it an argument about something minor or significant? Sometimes our brains can over work things.

I think you should tell her how you feel, IF you were at fault maybe make it up to her? *hug
 
#3
Hi @Jsinjin. I'm sorry to hear you are feeling this bad.

Like @Champagne says, was this argument a major one or a smaller one? Sometimes small things can feel like big things. I'm sure there is a way to reconcile with your partner. You can always share more details if you want.

I hope you can feel a bit better soon. Sending hugs *brohug.
 

Jsinjin

SF Supporter
#4
My partner is abusive and doesn't know it. She has severe OCPD, anger, hoarding, and a tendency to interrogate me and the kids at a moment's notice if she finds anything disturbed or out of.place.
 
#5
My partner is abusive and doesn't know it. She has severe OCPD, anger, hoarding, and a tendency to interrogate me and the kids at a moment's notice if she finds anything disturbed or out of.place.
I'm sorry *brohug. That sounds tough to deal with. Do you think couples therapy might be an option? Stay safe.
 

memyselfand1

University Student
#6
Perhaps it’s all happening because the corona virus lockdown, perhaps give each other a few hours space, peace and quiet and talk to her when she’s in calmer mood.
 

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