To all those who have found their girlfriends or boyfriends, how soon did you start kissing? Was it on the first date? Then how soon after that did it become passionate. Just want to know the normal ideal growth of love between 2 people. I got this girl cousin, she's about 30 years old, who was speaking to a guy she met online and they've known each other for about a month or so. They talked about meeting up, but she was always nervous about it because the guy in his chats would always seem to talk in this sexual attraction (and she is attracted to him which is why she kept sticking with him), but the talks would make her question their relationship because of the sexual desires they would chat about. He would talk to her about her problems, support her and give her advice, but most of the talks were of sexual nature. She questions whether if she ever met this guy if the encounter would be the same. She has feeling they'll be a too strong sexual attraction to someone she never met before and it'll be wrong to sleep with him on the first date, if you get my meaning. Oh and she said he wants her to be honest right from the beginning with him that if something was bothering her, she should let him know. But she's afraid if she mentions this, he'll get all defensive saying he never intended it to be just sexual and blame her for taking it the wrong way since he did mention other things like talk about her problems. She said he can get defensive like that sometimes. So when is the natural progression when love happens vs everything else?