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Tough time of year

Discussion in 'Help Me! I Need to Talk to Someone.' started by jazzy, Dec 12, 2011.

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  1. jazzy

    jazzy Member

    21 this year...
    7 years with out my sister..
    really hurts this year..
    i want to be 21 with her..
    but i cant :(
  2. texaskitty

    texaskitty SF Cat Lady Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    I am so sorry for your loss.

    Perhaps do a memorial for your sister? A way to remember and honor her?

    Some folks do something by themselves, others invite people. Candles, pictures, and letters of what the person meant to them.
    It can help in the letting go/grieving process, although we will always remember our lost loved ones, the pain can lessen.
    Keep posting and let us know how you are.

  3. jazzy

    jazzy Member

    its a hard one..
    she was a twin.. but my parents dont agree remembering her death...
    it was very tragic.. and a very bad period of my life :(..
    but every year its getting harder
  4. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    I'm sorry to hear that jazz. I've lost people very close to me too so I know how you feel to some extent :hug:
    All I can say is keep your head high and keep holding on and with a bit of hope things will get easier :hug:
  5. maries

    maries Active Member

    i'm really sorry for your loss. maybe do a memorial just yourself for her? if your parents don't want to do it, you could just do one yourself maybe. again, i'm really sorry
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