My ex has been playing games with respect to me having visitation with my son. She will dangle him out there, offering to let me see him on her weeks, then yank him away, telling me "you can only see him on your weeks". She only lets me see him when she wants something out of me (things, or to "babysit" him while she goes on dates). Then, when she gets mad, she says I can't see him anymore, except on my weeks. My son and I are more like brothers; we do everything together. She knows how much I love him, and how much I want to spend time with him. And she uses him to hurt me. It's bad enough she ran off to Kuwait for 8 months, leaving he and I alone (she's not in the military, she didn't have to go), while she was going out and having an affair over there (which she has admitted to). Now she's using my son as a weapon. I can't live like this anymore. I wish that person had never found me up at the lake. :sad: