ok im new to this but seem to have a lot of problems so here goes. ive been wit my boyfriend for 4years now and weve had our fair share of problems. it started wit his ex tellin m she loved me etc...nd e didint tell be for months even tho they were still talkin nd lied to me about why e didnt talk to her anymore. i love m but feel i cant trust m. i cant stand when e talks to other girls nd especially if they flirt wit m. e is never completely honest wit me nd always has an excuse like i cant remember... and it drives me mad! also i think e never tells his friends about me nd never tells me who e has been wit. e is a lovely guy but i think my insecurities are going to drive m anyway. any ideas?