im struggling with trust issues with my good friend. I've known them for years and never once thought about things that they'd say before, but we've gotten closer recently and I'm now beginning to not believe things they say they are doing or where they are going, generally everything they say. It's ruining our conversations because I'm questioning them all the time and not actually enjoying the conversation. Then going over the conversation in my head after, doubting what they said.
I look forward to talking to them but after it's draining emotionally because I'm going over it all
, so then next time we talk I'm still querying what they said before, can sometime be days after.
I know trust takes time but they've never done or said anything in the past to loose that trust and if I've asked anything they have always explained it and supported me through my anxieties. I wish I could just enjoy our chats and anytime we have together but I'm worried it will destroy our friendship if I keep questioning them. This is all because of issues in the past with people that have got close and I'm tired of it impacting on friendships now.
Any help please would be appreciated, I don't want to loose someone who has supported me through many dark days.
I look forward to talking to them but after it's draining emotionally because I'm going over it all
, so then next time we talk I'm still querying what they said before, can sometime be days after.
I know trust takes time but they've never done or said anything in the past to loose that trust and if I've asked anything they have always explained it and supported me through my anxieties. I wish I could just enjoy our chats and anytime we have together but I'm worried it will destroy our friendship if I keep questioning them. This is all because of issues in the past with people that have got close and I'm tired of it impacting on friendships now.
Any help please would be appreciated, I don't want to loose someone who has supported me through many dark days.