Delete this if you will. I frankly don't give a rat's ass anymore. I'm entitled to an opinion and I'll make it anonymously because I know the little "woe is me clan" will pitch a fit. So by all means if this classifies itself as "too harsh" because I'm simply being honest then by all means go ahead, delete it. I'm really fed up with the attitudes on SF where they feel the need to think that everyone is supposed to bend over backwards for them when they are in "Crisis". Did you ever stop to think that everyone on this damn site is in crisis, hence why they are here? People cannot help everyone at every point in their lives. We're not here to baby you, coddle you and/or hold your hand through your whole life. The point is it's your life. You need to make some choices on your own and if you mess up or slip up, pick yourself up and try it all over again. That is the name of the game isn't it. I have many friends on this site that I have helped and love very much and I will NOT let them get trampled on the way some have. To the people who insist on belittling, beating down and making the staff feel less than they are. Cut the shit. Maybe if you haven't realize before they became "red or green" they were just like us. They still are just like us so get off your moral high ground and shut the hell up already. Their job is to make sure the site is a safe place for all to come, not to babysit and help you suck your thumb. This site is supposed to help people not make them feel worse and the shit I've seen lately has both made me hate this site and wish it would shut down all at once. Sadly I need this site still even though I hate it so much. There is no need to make staff or anyone else feel less than they are. There is no need to butt your noses into fights, arguments or even serious discussions. It's not about you, it doesn't concern you, so stay the hell out of it. I love how so many people are willing to pinpoint and target others for their issues, downfalls and mistakes but aren't willing to step up and own up to their own. It's funny that you can sit there and say "well a mod did this and a mod did that" What about you complaining about every little thing they do wrong? Guess what?! People make mistakes, people don't catch everything, people MESS UP! There's no need to go throw a wobbly and post in the main forum about chat. CHAT AND FORUM ARE TWO DIFFERENT PLACES. Keep your damn drama about chat in ltm because frankly no one on the board wants to hear your "wah wah everyone hates me no one loves me. this person said that to this person" kind o fbullshit. We're here trying ot get support not listen to you bitch like a hyena. Now my next issue. If a thread has nothing to do with you, if you weren't even around to see what happened then stay the fuck out of it. I find it all too funny that certain people still feel the need to take digs at members when their friend is involved. Quite frankly you got her/his side of the story which of course could be utter bullshit and completely misconstrued. So you make yourself look like an ass by making comments you know nothing about. Also pointing out something and you know who you are. You are the last person who should be talking about fighting with girlfriends on the forum/chat. Aren't you the one who had like 2,000 girlfriends on this site and stalked and belittled each one everytime they split with you. That's kinda calling someone out on a small scale when yours seems to be on the large scale of things. Don't call people out on shit unless you want your dirty laundry aired as well. Last issue...this place was once a safe haven for people to come to. It was once a place where people could go into chat and talk about their problems and not be screamed at, not be told to take it elsewhere and mostly listened to. They were helped not ridiculed. They were helped not pushed over the edge. So instead of nitpicking at every little flaw or fault people have why not help...isn't that what this fuckin' site is about..or have we all reduced it to a bickering pile of bullshit. Think about it before you go and shit on other people. They are just as bad off as you. Get your head out of your ass. Go ahead delete this. You'll be having a fun time because I"ll most likely keep posting it.