Two types of people

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by Death71, Mar 24, 2007.

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  1. Death71

    Death71 Guest

    Does anyone think, i know that this is simplistic, that there are two types of people in the world. People that will leave a relationship if they're not happy and then the people that will try to make that relationship work because they can remember the good times and the history.

    I think, as the REM song says, it's easier to leave than to be left behind, the choice has been taken away from you, you're just left with the feeling of rejection. What is love anyway, it's just a selfish emotion, i love you, i don't love you anymore, well why did you love me in the first place.

    Seems to me like changing a car, or the colour of a wall. How many times can you go through life telling people you love them, or getting married, it means less each time. No one ever says to a new partner I really love you but not quite as much as my last one :rolleyes:

    It's all an illusion, time is a great healer because you forget, my ex is a survivor, i admire these people really, her new bloke left his marriage as well. I just think when you have a decision made that you don't agree with it just leaves you feeling numb and unpowered, and can take away any self respect. My career has gone to shit, I should be stronger, but i can't get my mind off of what's happened.

    I want my ex to be happy, but i don't want to have to think about it or witness it, i can't start a new relationship because i still love my ex and am a emotional mess, on the inside. I go from sadness, despair, to feeling pure evil, i've probably banged on about this before on this forum but what the hell it's what it's here for I hope:biggrin:

    In the UK firearms aren't easy to get hold of, since the last fruitcake murdered about 20 children in a school in 96 they've banned handguns & the ones you're allowed have been modified hugely. I've got tablets but if i do it i want it done correctly, no fucking about, just done and finished.
  2. Guy Incognito XI

    Guy Incognito XI Well-Known Member

    Is it better to have loved and lost then to never love at all.

    I am the latter, and I think the former is probably worse unless the loved is dead.
  3. 96GSX

    96GSX Member

    I would hate to see a Brit off himself. Where would I go to fight with the soccer hooligans? France? Might as well goto a retirement home. But I do get what you're saying about love. I always suggest a hobby, nothing feels better than blowing things up in a video game. Or perhaps world of warcraft is more your style. But the one thing you have to do is move on. Sometimes you have to go at things alone, and the only decent thing about it is that you can't let yourself down.
  4. Death71

    Death71 Guest

    Yeah, i do martial arts, when i've not drunk to much the night before :biggrin: at the moment, and I play on UT. I can't escape my imagination or the reality of the two of them together, and all of the years we had together now count for nothing, it's like an illusion that never really happened. What next, meet someone else and continue an further illusion with them until it goes wrong, i love you, oops that's changed, now i love you instead. Love, fucked up shit, much better when you were a kid and chocolate and ice cream were the main goals in life :laugh:
  5. 96GSX

    96GSX Member

    Just because you date someone doesn't mean you have to tell them you love them. I prefer Battlefield 1942 or Battlefield Vietnam.
  6. bono

    bono Well-Known Member

    Make that three types of people.

    I am too afraid of girls to enter a relationship. So I spend an absurd amount of Guild Wars to keep myself from ever getting laid :)
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