So my ex who has dissappeared with my son and has been basically gone for 3 years with no word on where she is just sent me an e mail saying " that I have a problem and if I don't call her by monday she will be going to the state". Now... what I don't get is....she's the one that disappeared on me denying me my court given rights to see my child and I've been paying child support.... But yet I'm the one that is in trouble here? WTF.... I get really tired of her trying to cause problems.