i love this girl and want to be with her, but that isn't possible due to circumstances beyond my control. we get along great, we have fun while we are together, and even when we are apart. not being able to be with her is very depressing and hurts because i love her so. i know we will never be able to be together due to circumstances. i recently met a lady and we have been spending a lot of time together. we get along great, talk about everything, and enjoy the company we share. just within the past day or so i have come to realize that i really like this girl and want to spend time with her. she doesn't know that i like her, and i'm not sure i want to tell her for a few reasons. the main reason i don't want to say anything is because i do not want to ruin the friendship that we have. second: she knows i had and still have feelings for this other girl. and last: if i did decide to get involved with this lady , how wouldit make her feel, knowing that i am on the rebound, so to speak. if i can get some advice from folks here as i have nobody i can talk to face to face about anything. i suffer from severe depression, and want to die. but i want to stay to be with this lady. if i can get some advice from some ppl that may have some insight as to what i could, or should do. thank you for your time in reading this. i'm new to forums, and not sure where i was supposed to post this. i apologize if this is in the wrong section.