untrusting family-*T*

Discussion in 'Self Harm & Substance Abuse' started by *dilligaf*, Oct 5, 2006.

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  1. *dilligaf*

    *dilligaf* Staff Alumni

    some of my family have found out about my SHing..which caused me to do it again quite badly, where ive been trying to be good.
    my uncles girlfriend was here today and when she found out she grabbed my arm moaning at me saying she wanted to look...she really hurt :(
    we had some new carpets fitted yesterday..and she found some blades on the floor in our spare bedroom (my two little cousins use it as a play room) and she suspected they were mine...even after telling her that this is something I do TO ME..it involves no1 else..i wouldnt leave things like that lying around where my cousins were likely to get to them, she still doesnt believe me.
    am i not to be trusted ever again now?! does she really think id do that? anyone else had these kind ofproblems with family/friends?
  2. allofme

    allofme Staff Alumni

    no one in my family knows i cut... how they dont i have no idea... blind i guess.. blind to the truth .. blind to caring... just blind...

    i am hanging in there with you... hugs... and i believe you
  3. total_edge

    total_edge Guest

    noone knows i cut either, but still dont forget , that u do it to your self
    but you are affecting others too with this action, cos they care for you
    and they want u to stay safe.
    they will trust u again im sure of that, try not to give them reasons to
    believe wrong things about u, and try to explain them [to who they know]
    that they are making it worse by pressing/checking/asking you about if u
    SH 'd , tell them u ll make a big try to stop and i think they will trust you,
    but u must not dissapoint them too many times, cos in the end, it ll be
    difficult to get their trust [im experienced to that and its really BAD
    someone who trusted u to stop believe in you ]

    hope u r better by now
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