UPDATE **TRIGGER WARNING**

Discussion in 'Rape and Abuse' started by KayKayBug, Nov 28, 2015.

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  1. KayKayBug

    KayKayBug Member

    So I feel as if i've been torn and ripped to shreds... My rapist caught me alone again and started to try and mess with me, My boyfriend (who was in the restroom) came back and saw him kissing me. Now keep in mind i learned the hard way what happens if i fought my rapist and i didn't want to have to explain where the bruises would have come from, so i didn't fight him, but rather froze. My boyfriend got pissed AND LEFT ME WITH HIM! He didn't fight him, he didn't try to stop him, or save me... So i got raped again... And I feel betrayed...

    Then my boyfriend breaks up with me for cheating on him even though i tried to tell him the truth... He didn't believe me... God it freaking hurts...

    Happy Thanksgiving to you too....
     
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  2. Nikie

    Nikie Well-Known Member

    Men and there ego.. It is truely sad that happened to you. If you need to talk it out please message me. I know this type if stuff is not things you want to discuss in the open.. I can relate to that feeling of being left alone again. . and again. And again....
     
  3. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    I can't believe this happened, how vile, horrid and they should be deeply ashamed of themselves. What the hell was your boyfriend thinking, leaving you with your rapist? I really feel for you. This should not have happened. I personally think you should report it to the authorities and contact your local rape crisis centre, see what help they can offer you.

    You deserve to be treated gently and respected, I hope you are feeling somewhat better than when you started this thread. Please keep us updated. I am also a rape victim/survivor so I understand a lot of what you are going through. Big hugs xxx
     
  4. Unknown_111

    Unknown_111 Forum Buddy Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    You have to remain strong. You are struggling at the moment due to horrible circumstances. If your boyfriend does not understand then drop him as you need the support of us as we can HELP YOU. You are young and YOU need to report the horrid experience straight away as well keeping the clothes as evidence as DNA intelligence is important in order to stop this person.

    Please listen to Petal's advice as she knows what she talking about. You urgently need specialist counselling as it's very important. The harrowing experiences you have been through can leave you long-term emotional damage and trusting of any future relationships. Not all men are animals but the next course of action is important. Please remember you cannot do this by yourself as it's very difficult experience to deal with in emotional and physical state.

    YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO US, WE CAN GIVE ALL THE SUPPORT YOU NEED IN A NARRATIVE TEXT FORMAT BUT YOU REALLY NEED THE ONE TO ONE FACE TO FACE SUPPORT FROM SPECALIST COUNSELLORS. WE REALLY CARE FOR YOU BUT PLEASE TELL SOMEONE LIKE YOU MUM AND DAD IF YOU CAN. YOU CANNOT CARRY THE BURDEN BY YOURSELF AS ITS VERY HARD TO COPE WITH. YOU KNOW WHAT WE SAY MAKES SENSE AND TRUST US YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OFF. You are NOT TO BLAME IN ANY WAY AT ALL FOR THIS EXPERIENCE.

    PLEASE BE SAFE AND KEEP POSTING AS WE CAN HELP. YOU CAN SEE BY THE OTHER'S POSTs OF SUPPORT HERE.
     
  5. Stephanie

    Stephanie New Member

    I'm so sorry I truly am
     
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