Sorry I've not been around for a while. Just an update really...still here (unfortuntely and not through wanting to be). CPS are still deciding if to formally charge my main abuser (if you don't believe me or question if I lie..whatever, PM me and I will give the evidence that will proof it). he's been re-bailed for another 4 weeks to allow CPS more time. If they do say No, I've already chosen what I will do to ensure that he can no longer abuse another child. For those that don't know, or are thinking about reporting somebody for child abuse if there is any chance another, even if its only a gut feeling you have, you have to report.... I reported as I felt there was a high chance he was still abusing, and those gut feelins I had where right, there is evidence that he is still abusing children (directly and indirectly) just one example is child porn was found at he's property. If your still unsure, most people can't help but hear and feel devasted about "Baby P" who was brutally and sadistically murdered.......could you live with knowing that your silence allowed for another child like Baby P to be abused, I don't think you can. This might be harsh, but adults have a choice, children don't...adults need to speak for those that can't.