useless ugly sex repellant

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by MissMisery, Mar 11, 2011.

  1. MissMisery

    MissMisery Well-Known Member

    I feel really stupid with what I'm about to confess but it confuses me n I don't knw wat to think I've never had sexual confidence as it is but hell its now non existent!

    Its about my ex, the whole relationship was odd just like the pair of us, the first time we had sex I was out of it but I recall it in a sense. Great start!

    When we lived together we drank heavily and he's always been into drugs, anyway the sex wud happen but it was weird. I enjoyed it, but he had difficulties like he took ages to come, was like sum major effort! This made me feel useless and repulsive agh feel so lame wriring this

    So yeah, I must be useless and gross he didn't find me attractive wat? Why

    He said it was due to medication he was on and drug abuse but I can't believe tht it must be me

  2. Domo

    Domo Well-Known Member

    Drinking and drugs most definitely will have an effect on sexual performance. No logical reason to blame it on you being repulsive.
  3. 1112222

    1112222 Well-Known Member

    Yep and that is all that needs to be said.
  4. MissMisery

    MissMisery Well-Known Member

    Well I wud like to believe it but its affected me greatly
  5. NoMoneyToPlease

    NoMoneyToPlease Banned Member

    His willy is going through some problems,It has nothing to do with you.
    Sometimes firing mechanisms jam.:poo:

    If he didn't find you sexy then he wouldn't be shagging through the worry and embarrassment in an effort to satisfy you.

    Give up the bad self image....and the drink and the drugs too.

    Sex is like music,no other ingredients are required for full enjoyment of the experience.

    You rock,the problems with his cock. :stars:
  6. MissMisery

    MissMisery Well-Known Member

    Haha that made me laugh thanks :)
    I don't and never have done drugs and don't intend on doing him ever again either lol thnks tho
  7. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    I can't orgasm during sex at all regardless of who it's with or the situation. It's very likely to not have anything to do with you, if my experience is any guide.
  8. Socialman

    Socialman Well-Known Member

    Have you talked to the doctor about possible retrograde ejaculation?
  9. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    There's no sensation. The only reason I've heard of (and I've searched extensively) for that is circumcision - which is not the case.

    I think I'm fucked, metaphorically but certainly not physically. I can still masturbate, but it's never brought me any pleasure... I do it, as a chore, on a daily basis, to clear my mind.
  10. MissMisery

    MissMisery Well-Known Member

    Do u think its a psychological thing? Ah I don't knw
  11. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    That's been put forward. Maybe I just need a higher ratio of masturbation to sex to get used to it... Meh. I'm not too worried, I still enjoy the overall experience.
  12. starryeyed

    starryeyed Well-Known Member

    back to the origianl post if you dont mind
    believe me its a lot worse when the man comes straight away ,awful feeling .
    being very drunk isnt great for sex ,but if you are nervous a lot of ppl drink .its always better to be sober.there are so many psychological levels to the mind and sex ,that noone can really help you have to try and have a healthy relationship with someone if you can .it does take a long time though for some anyway
  13. Jace

    Jace Active Member

    That could be caused by any number of drugs or it could be psychological.