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Very lonely after a break up

Kate1

Well-Known Member
#1
I met a man earlier this year. Immediately we got on well and became friends. Because of Covid-19 we couldn't see each but we messaged for hours daily and talked often. We were making plans to take a holiday together in the future. He even talked about me moving in with him in the future if things went well between us.

However, we broke up a few days ago and we've ended all contact. I feel so lost and empty again. I know I'm no worse off than before I met him but I feel even more lonely. It seems hard enough to meet a man in my 30s but to meet one and for it not to work out is just disappointing. I know I'll will get over this but at the moment it really hurts.

Thanks for reading.
 

Walker

Admin
SF Social Media
SF Author
SF Supporter
#2
Hi there
I’m sorry you’re feeling bad about your breakup. Online relationships are tough and sometimes people feel like they can break them off easier than transitional ones. Did he have a particular reason cited or just wasn’t working out well?
i hope you can find some new people to talk with soon - romantically or otherwise. People here are all pretty great to talk with in the interim :)
 

Kate1

Well-Known Member
#3
Thanks for understanding, Walker.


Its hard to explain why we broke up. We had a few bad arguments. I think you are right people behave differently online and maybe say things they wouldn't in person.
My job ended due to Covid and now this break up has left me feeling so low. Yes, I would really like some new people to talk to.
 
#4
Hi Kate. I can relate somewhat. My wife asked for a divorce over a month ago. We’ve been living in separate bedrooms since then. I never felt so lonely in all my life. Also I really don’t have to many friends. It helps to come on SF. People are friendly and care for your wellbeing. If you ever want to talk don’t hesitate to message me.
 

Kate1

Well-Known Member
#6
Hi Kate. I can relate somewhat. My wife asked for a divorce over a month ago. We’ve been living in separate bedrooms since then. I never felt so lonely in all my life. Also I really don’t have to many friends. It helps to come on SF. People are friendly and care for your wellbeing. If you ever want to talk don’t hesitate to message me.
I'm very sorry about your wife asking for a divorce. Thanks for the encouragement. I will post more on SF and try to get to know people.
 

Daphna

Ninja of light
#10
I met a man earlier this year. Immediately we got on well and became friends. Because of Covid-19 we couldn't see each but we messaged for hours daily and talked often. We were making plans to take a holiday together in the future. He even talked about me moving in with him in the future if things went well between us.

However, we broke up a few days ago and we've ended all contact. I feel so lost and empty again. I know I'm no worse off than before I met him but I feel even more lonely. It seems hard enough to meet a man in my 30s but to meet one and for it not to work out is just disappointing. I know I'll will get over this but at the moment it really hurts.

Thanks for reading.
Break ups are hard. Sorry to hear. 🤗
 

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