People dominated by The Victim Complex seem to be multiplying on here. If you dont know what it means, heres what it is:
A persecution complex is a term within psychological discourse afforded to an array of complex behaviours that specifically deal with the perception of being persecuted for various possible reasons, imagined or real.
Heres my take on it.
They are easily outraged when their victim status is challenged. Im forever listening to people who feel they are the victim of this, that, and everything else.
When you talk to a victim, they find someway to get into the conversation they have been victimized. Sometimes these are the same people who believe life is what you make of it and they can create their own destiny. In contrast, they are the first to run to a lawyer for a lawsuit, or be influenced by slights from others.
People with Victim Complex have a hard time moving on. To heal, they have to accept harsh truths:
I've known people who let a few minutes of hurt dominate their lives for evermore. Things are worse when someone makes a career out of the victim role. Until life is corrected to the way they want to it to be, they – and no one else – may be happy.
So, if this describes you, please spare a thought for the people your affecting with your subservient attitude
A persecution complex is a term within psychological discourse afforded to an array of complex behaviours that specifically deal with the perception of being persecuted for various possible reasons, imagined or real.
Heres my take on it.
They are easily outraged when their victim status is challenged. Im forever listening to people who feel they are the victim of this, that, and everything else.
When you talk to a victim, they find someway to get into the conversation they have been victimized. Sometimes these are the same people who believe life is what you make of it and they can create their own destiny. In contrast, they are the first to run to a lawyer for a lawsuit, or be influenced by slights from others.
People with Victim Complex have a hard time moving on. To heal, they have to accept harsh truths:
- They cant undo the damage.
- There will be no apology or real justice for the hurts
- They have to admit 'defeat'
- They really are in control of their destinies, not just a passive recipient to outside forces
I've known people who let a few minutes of hurt dominate their lives for evermore. Things are worse when someone makes a career out of the victim role. Until life is corrected to the way they want to it to be, they – and no one else – may be happy.
So, if this describes you, please spare a thought for the people your affecting with your subservient attitude