Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by J_Oli3, Oct 22, 2009.

  1. J_Oli3

    J_Oli3 Well-Known Member

    I'm a virgin at 19. Even though it's mostly down to my reluctance to participate in the outside world, I like to think myself a beacon of hope for what people love to make out as this pandemic of teenage sex/pregnancy :lol!:

    Anyone else brave enough to let themselves be known?
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  2. NoGood

    NoGood Well-Known Member

    I was 18 and with my boyfriend two years before we did the deed :) I think its great that you havnt made a young stupid mistake like alot of people today. I waited for the right guy and after 7yrs im still with him and ya know what, im really proud of myself and im so happy i didnt just give it to someone that didnt matter.

    Well done you!!!
  3. sucidalgirl99

    sucidalgirl99 Well-Known Member

    I'm a virgin myself too.
  4. HaveNot

    HaveNot Active Member

    Same over here too and I'm 21.
  5. lonercarrot

    lonercarrot Well-Known Member

    Almost 21 and I'm a virgin. Never even had a girlfried =/ No hope in the near future either. I am way too self conscious and unsocial
  6. Aurora Gory Alice

    Aurora Gory Alice Well-Known Member

    I lost my virginity when I was 20 and I regret how I lost it, so to all those holding out for the right person, don't worry about it! Better to lose it when it's worth it than to do it with any old loser. :)
  7. necrodude

    necrodude Well-Known Member

    linds is right. i first had sex when i was about 20. i was in a "serious" relationship too. problem was, afterwards it went downhill quick. i still regret it now. sex changes things. dont sweat it though. do what feels right.
  8. Bigman2232

    Bigman2232 Well-Known Member

    i have you all beat. I'm 24 and 4 months from 25 and I'm a virgin. I have been the guy that is a great listener and been the one who will support the women no matter what has happened (which you think would make me ideal bf material) but I have remained the close friend who is not a bf. I have become as close to if not more to women as a bf but I am still the friend only and never experienced the physical.
  9. Aurora Gory Alice

    Aurora Gory Alice Well-Known Member

    Actually I should re-phrase what I said.

    While Rob is right about not necessarily waiting for the serious relationship (I have to admit, now I'm older I do think that's kind of BS and I believe people make too much of a big deal about sex and losing their virginity), at the same time you are going to remember 'your first time' for the rest of your life and questions about it are going to arise for the same amount of time, so be careful WHO you lose it to.

    I wish I'd have lost it to a friend or someone I remotely gave a toss about because how I lost it and who to, is a story I hate and seldom tell.
    On the same hand, don't bother waiting for the great love story and the amazing relationship because I'm 26 and I STILL haven't had that, and I'd hate to still be waiting to have sex because I don't know if the great love story will ever come.

    So if you meet someone you like and they're good to you and you want to do it with 'em. Hell.. I say go do it! :D
  10. necrodude

    necrodude Well-Known Member

    yeah, thats true.
  11. AlexDanish

    AlexDanish Account Closed

    I'm a virgin and I'm 17... Although the option hasn't come up as much as it would in a teenagers life, I've managed to stay a virgin.

    I'm really glad. I view losing your virginity early as a loss of innocence. I guess it's a weird way of looking at it. Things of a sexual nature are very serious to me, and when they're tossed to the wind like they're something you just do with your boyfriend or girlfriend, I find it weird. I guess I'm wired differently.
  12. pither

    pither Well-Known Member

    I'll be 18 in 3 months and I'm still a virgin- it's kinda hard losing your virginity when you "hate the world" =/

    I can't say I wouldn't get physical if the opportunity presented itself-- but I think sex is something you share with someone you REALLY love and not whoever happens to be your partner at the time-

    I too though have always just been the really good listener and close female friend, but never the girlfriend. I'm just too self conscious I guess xP
  13. Remedy

    Remedy Chat & Forum Buddy

    I lost mine wayyy too young... I wish I was still a virgin. It's better to wait and have some self-respect.
  14. wastedmylife

    wastedmylife Well-Known Member

    go have sex if you are young and have the chance, something may happen where you lose that opportunity and you will regret you didnt take chances

    fuck virginity and fuck god, if you are old enough to have sex have it and use protection to make sure you wont have kids or diseases, why wouldn't someone have sex, is there anything better in the world then sex

    go fuck people if you are young and willing
  15. pither

    pither Well-Known Member

    Oh believe me I don't do this for religious reasons AT ALL. I just have problems even talking to anybody due to my views on people and their chronic asshole-ism. Kinda hard to get to the point of ripping someone's pants off if I don't give people a chance in the first place. Plus- I rather not have my first time be with some dumb shit teenage boy who doesn't give a crap how I feel just as long as he "gets some".

    But that's just me....
  16. Aurora Gory Alice

    Aurora Gory Alice Well-Known Member

    I think the main problem with this whole losing your virginity thing is it's all down to the person and your personality.

    While it might be okay for one person to have countless one night stands and shag anyone and anything, that might be deemed 'lack of self respect' to another. And we should all respect each others stance on this.

    I did the former and I wish I hadn't. So yeah, might end up with regrets about it but it's the choice you make. And if your personality doesn't fit the whole 'sleep around' thing, then you're just gonna end up like I did.. with a whooolllee heap of regrets.
  17. IDKwhatIwant

    IDKwhatIwant Well-Known Member

    look :stars: look

    I use to support abstinence. i was born Jehovah witness, and had a pretty religious upbringing. im not religious anymore. having social anxiety, and a past that sex was bad has made promiscuity hard. i dont want to view children as a 'mistake' though. like getting a std...

    i post on sites like craigslist just to flirt. i never do anything though...

    i avoid virgin women, and really want nothing to do with them. it isnt right to not have sex. it may be a great gift, but if you can go all that time without sex... the marriage is going to be sexually disappointing.

    men who abstain run a risk of pornographic and masturbation addictions. if that isnt a problem, erectile dysfunction could be present. psychotic medication, for major depression, bipolar, and other chemical imbalance disorders can also affect the sex drive. all in all, virgins normally have something to a hide, and a reason why, theyre still a virgin.

    i cant see why anyone would willing want to be a virgin.
  18. bluegrey

    bluegrey Antiquities Friend

    I lost my virginity at 22. I had opportunities earlier but I was (and still am) so painfully shy with the opposite sex I chickened out.
  19. AlexDanish

    AlexDanish Account Closed

    That's pretty sad. It's hard to see why some people actually have a certain amount of self-control, that they don't spread their pestilent filth like fucking sewer rats, and just fuck whoever they feel like?

    I think when it comes to something emotional and serious as sex, that it shouldn't be something you squander one just anyone.
  20. sammakko

    sammakko Banned Member

    I want to be a virgin because I do not want men touch me.

    Very good, that is their chance to stay virgin. Women are not holes, women are people. It is very right to be virgin as long as woman need to be virgin. Women are not virgins because men want or not, they are virgins because they need to be one reason or the other.

    Yes we have. Mine reason is I hate men, I hate men very much. I do not volunteerly ever give for any man because I hate them too much. I do not ever want to give that pleasure for them that they can push me on their stick. I puke only at the thought of it. But I do not try to hide it, I am open to say I am men hater and I have got reasons for it.

    What is sick is men who want to put their stick to any hole because of their moment of pleasure, mental or physical pleasure. Men can think only themselves. They can not think other people at all. Women on the other hand are pitiful because they give men use them as a hole. I mean relationship or marriage or one night stands. Women do not want to do it but the duty calls. Then women whining about it on the net. " My man want, I do not", I have to act I like it", I hope he do it fast", " I did it because I do not want he leave me" and so on. What is wrong with you women? And how sick is man if he forced woman to be hole and do not even see it? Men are cold bastards.

    I rather die virgin than ever give man touch me. I rather live alone and suffering than give for any man. I hate men and I hate their stick. Keep your stick, I do not want to even see it. Men are sick.

    They walk stick on their hands and want to show it for every girl, put it to every girl. Sick !

    Women are people, not holes.