Want to die

hate who i am hate what we are becoming god forsaken awful life all thanks to cheating husband we so want to not be here anymore so betrayed so had enough
theresa

 

Hi Theresa! Just letting you know that I'm listening. Nice meeting you, and welcome....Alex

 

Theresa,

Please don't hate yourself for something your husband did. How can that be your fault? In case this helps, we men are (mostly) pigs. I say this without trying to make fun of your situation. I have never cheated on my wife, but I (unfortunately) thought about it a couple of times when things with us weren't going well. I am glad I never did.

Most women and most men are radically different in this regard. I'm not trying to excuse your husband, but to say that you shouldn't attribute to your husband's actions the same motivations you would attribute to this behavior if it were you the one doing the cheating. Please, do not blame yourself for anything.