I'm kind of depressed over the way I treated some people in my life, but part of me feels like I shouldn't have to feel bad, and that it would be unfair if I had pretended if everything was ok. It really comes down to two events. I went back home this weekend, and tried reconnecting with some old friends. They didn't have anything fun or exciting to do, so i got bored while being at their place. I kind of made an awkward excuse for having to leave, but didn't tell them the real reason. I want to tell them why, but I don't want to hurt their feelings. But the truth is, that I do think I'm better than them and that I have better things to do than the hang around them. Should I tell them how I really feel? or should I just leave it? and should I feel bad for feeling this way? I don't like having to apologize for my feelings. The second event has to do with a girl that wanted to date me. we talked on the phone first and everything clicked, nice personality, fun conversation, but when I saw her appearance, I realized that I'm too good for her, and that she doesn't measure up to my standards in terms of physical appearance. I know I probably seem like a really bad person, but should I feel bad for wanting to spend time and date people that are privileged in the way they look and the things they do?