Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by asking_advice, Dec 4, 2010.
was there anyone here who had a one night stand? what you felt after you did it?
Eh I've had a few and I felt nothing because both me and the women involved got exactly what we wanted which was simple casual sex ... nothing more nor nothing less.
At first I felt great and thought about it and felt awful...it was not under the best circumstances as I had just broken up with someone I was in a long term relationship with, and all the conflicts seemed to appeared the day after...J
MY life is filled with one night stands. I got divorced late 2006, and after I finally got over it and started seeing people again, I found myself just having one stands instead of looking for a relationship. THis year alone, I have probably slept with 150 women. Some were great and some were horrendous, especially when I turn over in bed and see this fugly heffer. Sometimes, trying to get them to leave is easier said then done. The funny thing is, that I don't really rate sex as an essential part of my life. Every weekend is the same, I am out with friends and I end up picking up some strange (woman who I don't know). I can't even remember half of them, such was the impact they had on me, I always screen my phone calls in case one of these boilers rings up for a date. I would rather have a relationship, but since my divorce, I feel any relationship that I try to have will fail as well. I suppose I will just keep banging away till my knob drops off.
Thing is if you don't know the person you know what your getting yourself into like its just a one off then sure I guess there is no harm with two consenting adults fulfilling a need.
At the same time if it is someone you really like and yeah I have been there, and they say they want a one off with you, that is a lot tougher because you always want more. It depends on the circumstances really, but I guess you only regret the things you don't do..I think.