I am suicidal. I wasted my youth. It was lost to depression and mental illness. I was severely abused and neglected growing up and I never overcame the trauma and got stuck in patterns of depression and social isolation. I did not have hardly any sex or human connection for the vast majority of my life. After I hit puberty I have struggled with extreme sexual frustration due to not having sex for years at a time.
I know that it's not my fault but I still blame myself for my social and sexual failures. I was robbed of my youth by my abusive and neglectful parents. I was emotionally and sexually abused by my mother, and I was neglected by both my parents.
I am struggling with getting older as I am not ready to move forward into later stages of adulthood. I still feel like I need to go back to being 17 so I can redo my wasted youth. It feels like there is no way to get past the horrible feelings without going back in time and undoing the damage.
The level of sexual frustration that I am dealing with and have dealt with for many years is completely unbearable. I am ready to die because I do not see any hope. I don't see how I will ever be happy again in this life after suffering the absence of sex and the insane frustration and emotional imbalances that it causes.
I would have hope if my body didn't age, as the pressure to have sex during the window of youth wouldn't be there. But alas, I am aging, and I cannot go back in time to redo my youth so...
it feels completely hopeless. And really probably actually is completely hopeless. I will never get those years back. They are gone forever. And the window to have sex is quickly closing as I get older. It is not the same to have sex at an older age. I needed to have sex when I was a teenager and young adult. Not now. Any sex that I have now is too little too late. There seems to be no way out of this mess. Other than <mod edit - method>
I know that it's not my fault but I still blame myself for my social and sexual failures. I was robbed of my youth by my abusive and neglectful parents. I was emotionally and sexually abused by my mother, and I was neglected by both my parents.
I am struggling with getting older as I am not ready to move forward into later stages of adulthood. I still feel like I need to go back to being 17 so I can redo my wasted youth. It feels like there is no way to get past the horrible feelings without going back in time and undoing the damage.
The level of sexual frustration that I am dealing with and have dealt with for many years is completely unbearable. I am ready to die because I do not see any hope. I don't see how I will ever be happy again in this life after suffering the absence of sex and the insane frustration and emotional imbalances that it causes.
I would have hope if my body didn't age, as the pressure to have sex during the window of youth wouldn't be there. But alas, I am aging, and I cannot go back in time to redo my youth so...
it feels completely hopeless. And really probably actually is completely hopeless. I will never get those years back. They are gone forever. And the window to have sex is quickly closing as I get older. It is not the same to have sex at an older age. I needed to have sex when I was a teenager and young adult. Not now. Any sex that I have now is too little too late. There seems to be no way out of this mess. Other than <mod edit - method>
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