i've seen some postings on this site, that give one the idea that all or most person problems should be dealt with and solved by the time you reach 60. Those who don't do so, are some kind of wusses or just not performing up to snuff. in a sense this is some kind of wishful thinking on the part of the younger generation. Problems don't go away when you're older. They just transform themselves into other kinds of problems. Think of king lear. There's no difference in existence when it comes to problems. i don't believe there's much difference in wisdom, come to that. WE wll wish there were, and a lot of of older people love to pretend that there is, but there really is, but it's not true. hang in there and try for the bost you can get.