Call me an attention *****... I wasn't "raped" in a traditional sense, I guess. It wasn't a violent rape, or a date rape. It was a rape within the bounds of a relationship. He wanted it, I didn't. I said no. He didn't listen. I've blocked out almost 100% of the actual event. I never pressed charges. Anyway, I posted in another sub-forum about a "friend" telling me that this guy has moved on with his life, gotten married. (I'm still single, and here mostly because of other relationship crap). Has anyone else been in this place? Do you feel like karma is a bitch, but in the WRONG WRONG WRONGITY WRONG direction? Sure, there's the criminal justice system, and that's supposed to be the right way to handle these things, but I thought good things were supposed to happen to good people, and bad things to bad people? So how come this guys nether bits haven't turned colors and fallen off yet?