what am i? (sexual orientation)

Discussion in 'LGBTQIA (New Forum)' started by Summer.Rain, Mar 13, 2016.

  1. Summer.Rain

    Summer.Rain Well-Known Member

    im a guy, i love girls, i admire girls, i love to make them smile, to spoil them, to make them happy.
    but, when it comes to sex, i just dont want to go there, yeah im weird that way, i dont like what girls have down there, i dont like the way it looks, and nothing about it overall.
    now i saw some... girls online that are transgenders, they are pretty much girls in any way, except one,
    yeah they have their male parts down there, and it appeals to me.

    now, i know im not that special and im sure there are millions of guys just like me,
    yet i never met one like that, so i dont really have anyone to talk to about it that will understand.

    so what am?
    and more important, how can i ever find a girl to love and that will love me back?
  2. HarleyTwin

    HarleyTwin Staff Alumni

    Perhaps you are heteromantic but pansexual?
  3. Tiger

    Tiger Well-Known Member

    I think I'm similar, although I try not to think about it.
    Romantically im attracted to guys but I think i feel physically attracted to girls. I hate all these sexuality labels. Why can't we all just be pansexuals with preferences?
  4. Sea Sparkles

    Sea Sparkles Well-Known Member

    Pansexual comes to mind. And having preference for trans girls isn't a bad thing.
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    JAMES DOUGLAS New Member

    I am in the same boat.Trying to figure it out with therapy.I only mentioned it to my Psyc Doc last week.....
  6. Spottheshark

    Spottheshark Member

    This is quite common and a lot of transgender women are looking for a relationship with someone whether male or female. Don't forget being transgender has nothing to do with sexual orientation just gender identity and they also need to figure out their sexual orientation which may or may not change when they transition. The problem is a lot of guys who are into transgender women want to keep it a secret and would not acknowledge the woman in public and they hate that. Now while some transgender women do go for surgery to feminize their bodies not all wish to go for surgery for various reasons and keep their male genetalia.
    Seperate to this you have your drag queens. These are gay men who love to dress up and perform as women. I know both transgender women and drag queens and they are some of the most beautiful people you can meet. If you do want a relationship it needs to be supportive and open and it can be rough at times because there is still a stigma attached to being transgender which can transfer to those who like transgender individuals.