What are you scarred by?

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by MistyMaisy, Jul 7, 2012.

  1. MistyMaisy

    MistyMaisy Well-Known Member

    Has someone ever said something to you that hurt you so much that it has run through your mind everyday?
    What was it they said?
    Mine'd be my mother. Today she said "Have you ever thought of being useful?", "Can't you do anything right?" and "I thought you had some common sense."
    And, it's just the little things. My mom saw my cuts and wasn't bothered that I was cutting. All she said was "Someone else could see that"..She didn't even say "Are you alright"..
    So what're the things that get you down that people say?
     
  2. sadhart

    sadhart Well-Known Member

    I just wanted to say, that I'm sorry that your mother was so insensitive towards you. That was wrong and selfish of her. I deal with something similar with my mother....she is very one sided and she doesn't care when she hurts me. Anyway, I guess a lot of things people have said stick with me everyday. I still can't get over a rejection from a girl from three years ago. I mean I accept that I wasn't good enough, but the way she acted and some of the words she used still hurt. I want the pain to stop, but it never does.

    Again, sorry that you're hurting right now, and I hope the pain eases soon.