I see the statement a lot that people would like to help others in Sf but don't know how. i'm going to mention some and I hope other people will mention more. after all this is peer support so when we need support we get it and when we can we give it. it's not hard to help others.
1. always listen to what other people say. just being heard helps. i know i feel better if someone actually tries to understand what i say.
2. try to always have empathy for people they are suffering in some way.
3. if you have knowledge on thier situation give advice just don't push
4. try to make sure they know they aren't alone
5. sometimes something as simple as a hug will make a huge difference.
6. only say or do things from your heart, be honest and genuine
7. basically put yourself in their shoes and ask what would i want
you can use one or more of these things or anything else that gets suggested. just make sure people know that you care. and if you agree with someone or like what they post like it, this way they know you read it...mike
1. always listen to what other people say. just being heard helps. i know i feel better if someone actually tries to understand what i say.
2. try to always have empathy for people they are suffering in some way.
3. if you have knowledge on thier situation give advice just don't push
4. try to make sure they know they aren't alone
5. sometimes something as simple as a hug will make a huge difference.
6. only say or do things from your heart, be honest and genuine
7. basically put yourself in their shoes and ask what would i want
you can use one or more of these things or anything else that gets suggested. just make sure people know that you care. and if you agree with someone or like what they post like it, this way they know you read it...mike