I can't believe it my parents want to fly in this Friday-both of them! I told them that a very nice SF member was willing to drive out ...across the country from Minnesota to help me move and then all of a sudden they are saying they both will come this Friday. They say that is what family does for each other. I don't understand this..is it guilt? What do I do say no? I have about an hour at most to decide. I love this SF member for wanting to help and he was going to head out this way this summer when we could do fun stuff instead of moving and packing. What do I say to someone being so kind? It is so hard as my Dad is saying all the things I wished he had said weeks ago, your our daughter, we are family and we want to help. Why now..is it because someone else offered? Who do you pick a kind soul or your parents that you have been trying to reach out to? I can't believe this is happening.. earlier in the day the friend that offered to help said something came up and therefore she and her husband didn't come with their truck and trailer and all my stuff is still here!!!