what do i do???

my mum sprang it on me this morning that she wants me and her n my lil bro to go away for christmas.
i realy dont want to go
i want to spend christmas with my family and with my bf
itll be mine and my bfs first christmas and i dont want to miss it
i dont know how i can make her see i dont want to go without it ending in a shouting match
ive already told her that i wans spend it with my bf
what do i do
any ideas ??

 

Try and compromise. Is there some way you could spend maybe, christmas eve with your boyfriend and then go up with her on christmas day? Or maybe spend christmas day with her and boxing day with him.
I know how hard it is hun, my bfs family lives a four-five hour drive from me, so he's gonna be at home for the week of christmas so we can't see each other christmas day But we're gonna make the day he comes back our own special little christmas, and exchange gifts, have a cooked dinner, do everything that makes christmas christmas, cept without the families. Maybe you could try doing that?

 

By go away, do you mean go away to visit family or just do something else?

And in this case, maybe you could find a way to bring him?