Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by DrowningInTears, Jul 20, 2008.
I just wonder wat ppl reaaly think of me please say what u honestly feel even if it is bad.
Try not to worry about it so much :hug:
Why not give ppl the chance to know you. You can start with who you are. What brings you to SF?
i didn't vote because i don't know you (but i will look out for your posts from now on)
how come you list 8 negatives on the poll and only two positives? is that how you see yourself? how about 10 positives to choose from!!
ps. i changed my mind. anyone who posts this poll needs more friends! so i voted...
I cant vote becouse i dont know you im sorry
I voted even though I do not know you very well but I have seen some of your posts and on chat. I just wish that I could have ticked the friend one but I can't because I do not know you very well but your posts have been supportive and nice.
It is interesting why it is that you have put 8 negatives on the poll. I do not think you are any of them at all.
Hun. You need to put more postives on there. You are, from what i've seen of your posts, a lovely person. Don't be so down on yourself :hug:
I personally don't really know you DIT, but you must have done something wrong to be on forum access only status.
OK, i put 'a friend', because i dont really know you. And yeah, why you are on forum access only? is that the reason that you have opened this thread, because you did something bad? And i just want to know who voted 'a loser', and i want him to explain why he/she choose that option.
I don't feel a poll such as this is fair to you DIT. There really is no middle ground. You leave yourself open to to being hurt should someone choose a negative. I hope you can someday learn to like yourself. That is what is the most important thing for you right now. :hug:
Really supportive Dave. If you don't know her don't comment at all. Maybe she did do something that mods warranted as forum access only but wouldn't you think being at a suicide forum she needs support not someone chastising her mistakes. Maybe you should go to common sense school or something here. They probably offer it up Dave?!
DIT, you shouldn't focus on what people think of you but work on what you think of you. If it's negative start at the bottom and rebuild to make you love you. Forget others because their negativity will only beat you down. Stay safe hun.
I just can't win with you kelly.
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i guess allot of u dont know me cause i never went on forums much just went to chat. i lurked every now and then but didnt post much. maybe someone can go into chat and tell the chatters to come vote. there seems to be a slpit between chat users and forum users. please someone do this for me get the ppl in chat to vote since i cant go in.
why are you so concerned about what other people think? the most important thing, like others have said, is to start with loving yourself. you are setting yourself up to be hurt by allowing people to vote in this way.
because i may just be a blight on SF and if my presence here may be a burden for everyone else
i don't think you are a burden. if this is about breaking some rules in chat why not spend the time that you barred from chat as a chance to make a fresh start. it's your choice. as you can see from the poll, most of us welcome you here and look forward to getting to know you better.
Very good advice.
DIT, your temporary ban from chat has nothing to do with your value as a person. You are not hated in the chat room. If you'd like to discuss your chat ban please do contact one of the staff, we will honestly give you all the help we can. As Kelly said though you need to concentrate on your own opinion of yourself. No one can be liked by everyone, it's impossible and trying to achieve that only makes you feel worse. No one can give you self worth, it has to come from within. SF might be a good place for socialising and some support, but it can't be a replacement for a good self image. Only you can say what kind of person you are, only your opinion of yourself matters.
I voted twice; once for evil and once for nice.
haha that rhymes. :laugh:
Well the poll resluts arent as bad as I expected them to be. but still i dont know if anybody from chat even voted.
from what i remember i wasnt sure if u were being serious in chat. but as i said before i'd class u under awesome