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What do you do to socialise

Discussion in 'The Coffee House' started by asvt, Apr 6, 2009.

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  1. asvt

    asvt Well-Known Member

    Where do you guys go, what do you do to socialise with people. I don't really know anyone and was wondering what do i do to meet people my own age (20). I have tried the princes trust programme but most of the people on it were jerks and just used me. I have tried a few different volunteer projects and nothing i am just so lonely i want to meet some nice people i can hang out and be friends with.
     
  2. hammockmonkey

    hammockmonkey Well-Known Member

    Hmm, I meet people in class. I meet people by going to bars and joking with people. I meet people by sitting down next to them in coffee shops and talking to them. Sometimes they're cool and sometimes they think I'm a creep for talking to strangers. Mostly, I meet people from class and just talk to them.
     
  3. mdmefontaine

    mdmefontaine Antiquities Friend

    ...this is hard, , , because i am shy.

    but the fact is. . .you have to be involved in something, . . to meet people.

    volunteer work has made many friends for me. so has church. (not pushing religion here. just sayin. i did make lasting friends there)

    and work. in many cases work brings camaraderie to the game.

    i am lonely - but - i don't want shallow relationships. and that is predominantly what i find.

    good luck. sorry you feel alone (((massive hugs)))
     
  4. Anime-Zodiac

    Anime-Zodiac Well-Known Member

    Do you have any interests or hobbies? since you could look for a club that specializes in a hobby/interest of yours.
     
  5. jameslyons

    jameslyons Well-Known Member

    I second the idea of sharing your hobbies with like-minded individuals. I took ridiculous fun classes that had nothing to do with my major. I hang out with my classmates after class. I am always up for joining new groups; not much staying power though.
     
  6. Scars and Memories

    Scars and Memories Account Closed

    I meet people on the internet, although I'm shy there too
     
  7. mixedemotions

    mixedemotions Forum Buddy

    Go out drinking :p
     
  8. Witty_Sarcasm

    Witty_Sarcasm Eccentric writer, general weirdo, heedless heathen

    Usually I'll spend time with friends and get to know their friends.
     
  9. Tmacster1

    Tmacster1 Well-Known Member

    Classroom, restaurants, chill with friends - get to know them. Activities like youth events. Pretty much anything that has to deal with meeting someone.

    Trevor,
     
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