What happened to your bully(bullies)

Discussion in 'Bullying and Violence' started by Mordeci, Sep 18, 2010.


What happened to your bully/bullies

  1. went on to live a sucessful life

    13 vote(s)
  2. went on a downward path

    16 vote(s)
  3. nothing

    11 vote(s)
  4. don't know, don't care

    42 vote(s)
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  1. Mordeci

    Mordeci Banned Member

    Thought it would be intresting to take a survey to see what happened, to the people who taunted and tourted us back in the day and see collectively what they are doing now, I put nothing because the people who bullied me really did nothing with their lives, still living at home 6 years after high school no long term plans, no education, just nothing.
  2. Viro

    Viro Well-Known Member

    They are irrelevant.
  3. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    one of the bad ones was a cousin of mine....his brother tells me he has been in fights and lost...lost his job..suffered a nervous breakdown and his marriage has broken up....he is also a sleaze when he's out so no doubt he'll get beaten up again...
    Karma.. :)
  4. Neuropedia

    Neuropedia Member

    the guys who used to asked me out as a joke think that I am hot now
  5. IAD121212

    IAD121212 Well-Known Member

    Just saw one of mine. In the local store. He was my PE (Physical Education) teacher in school. A total bastard. There's me - a little puny 11 year old and him a great big (or so I thought at the time) 'man'. He loved to humiliate me cos I didn't really like sports and physical contact.

    Anyway, he had a long career as a 'teacher' (if you could call him such a thing).

    Today, I stared straight at the fucker. He looked confused. Obviously didn't recognise me. I gave a little smile. Still nothing. I was amused at the thought that I could, if I wanted to, snap his puny little neck with one hand probably. He's about 5' 8" and about 140lb. I'm 6'0" and 180lb with my fair share of muscle...

    I fantasised about approaching him and reminding him of those oh so happy school memories, but in the end I thought 'fuck it' - he's not worth a second of my time... :biggrin:
  6. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    My bully died in a terrible accident i used to blame me for it because i prayed everyday God would make him go away. I didn't want him to die his mother only had one child and she was so devastated i often think about him and i sorry that he died iwish i understood why he hated us so
  7. fallingangie

    fallingangie Well-Known Member

    My bullies are having a blast. Wish I could do something to make them suffer, I get to see them everyday of my life!
  8. Viro

    Viro Well-Known Member

    Actually, I do know what happened to one of mine. His brother drove his car off a cliff following a rave, killing himself and 3 of his friends.

    The bully was never the same after that, apparently.
  9. Domo

    Domo Well-Known Member

    Don't know about most of them. When school ended i never saw or heard from any of them again.

    Except one - He got hit by a car and suffered brain damage. Last time i saw him was at a court hearing that my brother was testifying for. Don't know the result of it all and that was many years ago now.
  10. Matrias

    Matrias Active Member

    The girls that all asked me out as a joke are all preggers/with kids now lol sluts. and now they look like there 35 at 22 :D
  11. PiecesMended

    PiecesMended Well-Known Member

    I literally only just left school. Dunno about them, they keep trying to add me on facebook... they'll proberbly be happy scamming their way through life like they did at school. At least I'm making real friends now their not there to scare everyone away.
  12. Sapphire

    Sapphire Well-Known Member

    I know of one guy from grade school... He was an agressive kid, looking for fights and intimidating people by bashing sticks against stuff and whatnot. I heard he's now in jail for having raped two women.

    Other so-called bullies who's behavior I think stemmed from different things than the guy above's bullying did...are doing just fine. On paper, at least.
  13. 1112222

    1112222 Well-Known Member

    One moved to Perth and got fatally stabbed when he tried picking a fight with some huge gay man.

    The others over time became my friends.
  14. ~Heather~

    ~Heather~ Well-Known Member

    My bully gained 100 lbs, didn't graduate high school until 3 years after her senior year because of gym, never went to art school despite her being "such a great artist" [no one else thought so], and lost every one of her friends because she bullied EVERYONE :cool:

    That was told to me a year ago I can only imagine what she's like now.
  15. Things

    Things Well-Known Member

    For the most part, I don't know. I never see any of them again after school ends (thank god). I only know about my ex baby-sitter, and I don't think much has changed for her.
  16. ZombiePringle

    ZombiePringle Forum Buddy and Antiquities Friend

    Well... one is my Stepdad and he's still married to my mom... the rest I have no idea and really don't care... I was mainly bullied in Elementary school and some of middle school..
  17. Underground

    Underground Well-Known Member

    It's a mixture. Ttwo of the chavs (Jake & Kirsty) who bullied me throughout Year 10 & 11 got together after we left school and have had a baby since then, despite only being 16 at the time.

    One of them, Tom, who pushed me down the stairs once and punched me, was shot in the neck because he was involved in gangs/drugs, although I think he's made a full recovery.

    A guy named Connor who used to harass me a lot made th city football team, although it's not exactly a good team, so I doubt he's on any significant amount of money.

    Some don't work or study anymore. They just sit on their arses at home, probably on benefits. Some have jobs in like chippies and clothes stores, others are still at college and sixth form.
  18. Songstress

    Songstress Well-Known Member

    There is only one bully I know anything of what happened to him, and it isn't much. Plus it happened a few years agao so I don't even know what happened after that.

    From what he was wearing it looked like he was in landscaping or construction. He didn't recognize me, and I rang him up for Marlboro Lights in a box at a convenience store. Stupid me even ID'd him just to make sure I was right, nearly sending me into a panic attack because I was terrified he'd know me.

    Good thing I don't work there anymore.
  19. oval

    oval Well-Known Member

    i was mainly bullied in elemertary school and part of middle school. middle school wasnt as bad though, more annoying. one from middle school had his coming out and is a drag queen now.
    the girls that i was in elementary and middle school with dropped out of school and look like hookers now with their tanning salon leather skin. good for them. i hope theyll also get fat soon :)
  20. Kandiman

    Kandiman Member

    One of my old bullies works as a butcher, had a kid with some chick who left him and appeared on a documentary about nudists. At which point it was very obvious why she'd left him.

    I saw another in the pub in my home village not so long ago. He was drunk and tried to fight me - I'll openly admit I snapped and put his head through the glass in the gents toilet door. That was kinda cathartic.

    The only other real 'bully' I had throughout school was a guy who thought he was some special kind of hard man. Turns out he was, too - I hear he's doing gay porn now. Seriously.
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