Why do you 'neurotypicals' fear yourselves so much?
You'll have to consult a study if you want to understand people as defined by group specifics. I can't tell you that nor be a representative of said group.
And why do people fear such judgment of character/personality as some anxious/neurotic people do? Maybe it has to do with human psychology and a major disconnect between the ideal self and the actual self? Maybe there's a bit too dominating super-ego in such types? I don't know.
(From Wiki)
The super-ego aims for perfection.
[27] It forms the organized part of the personality structure, mainly but not entirely unconscious, that includes the individual's
ego ideals, spiritual goals, and the psychic agency (commonly called "
conscience") that criticizes and prohibits their drives, fantasies, feelings, and actions. "The Super-ego can be thought of as a type of conscience that punishes misbehavior with feelings of guilt. For example, for having extra-marital affairs."
[33] Taken in this sense, the super-ego is the precedent for the conceptualization of the
inner critic as it appears in contemporary therapies such as
IFS.
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The super-ego works in contradiction to the id. The super-ego strives to act in a socially appropriate manner, whereas the id just wants instant self-gratification. The super-ego controls our sense of right and wrong and guilt.
[35] It helps us fit into society by getting us to act in socially acceptable ways.
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The super-ego's demands often oppose the id's, so the ego sometimes has a hard time in reconciling the two.
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