We all go through life wondering what's going to happen and what challenges are in front of us. Life is like a game, if you play it wrong, you lose in the end and relationships are just like this to be honest. Some times you don't see what's in front of you until it's to late.
Here is something that I came up with in the process of losing my first love and son:
I have learned a lot over the last 3 weeks to make a huge change in my reactions and life. Some of them I don't really understand but I know it's for the best intentions of my family and I am welling to learn. When you don't really have any parents that are there to teach you the things that are needed to have a relationship and you base everything off of theirs then that gets pretty difficult due to the fact that each relationship is different. When you got through life not seeing the other person or being blind for that matter then you are missing out on the most important thing there is to look forward too, and that's completing that empty space that you have that hasn't been completed yet.
Have you ever stopped or took the time to think about what you want in life or the things that have happened. People go through life being hurt or getting hurt and don't understand that this is part of life to be honest this is how we learn. We get knocked done to get back up and learn from that mistake or issue that's happened as hand or that moment. People have to learn and I did that words or not everything in a relationship or when you promise something to some one, actions speak louder then words. If you do nothing but run your mouth and nothing to back up then basically your blowing air and have nothing to back it up... this is a big issue, this is what ends a lot of friendships, relationships, families etc. This leads to trust and trust leads to being happy but this is not the way we as humans work. We take trust and abuse it in any way possible till it's to late to try to fix it or until we fight to o end to realize your fighting a losing battle.
There are some wars that we fight through life and this war is within us, not with other people but with yourself. This war can cost us everything and every one... To point that we don't know what to do and we feel lost. This can break down the most stubborn person to a point of ignorance because they didn't know what was done until their eyes are open. There are things within yourself that you must realize.
I want you to think about something, what's the longest you have been in pain or hurt? What is the worst pain you have ever been in and I don't mean pain, pain. I mean emotional pain. The last 21 days have been the hardest for me due to the fact I got slapped with reality hard. living in your own little word it not the best route to take do to the fact that you get stuck there and don't see what is really going on until that one thing comes at you and makes you realize that it's not worth it in the end.
When you finally come to reality you realize it's not as easy as you expected it to be specially when things start to go down hill. When that happens you then realize that you are now being tested to see how you hold up to the pressure of being a parent, grown-up, as well as other things. It's not easy but if you take the time to sit down and plan it all out then you might have a change to make it through the rough times that are waiting for you.
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I posted this in the wrong area. It was suppose to go in the Members' Diary section
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Here is something that I came up with in the process of losing my first love and son:
I have learned a lot over the last 3 weeks to make a huge change in my reactions and life. Some of them I don't really understand but I know it's for the best intentions of my family and I am welling to learn. When you don't really have any parents that are there to teach you the things that are needed to have a relationship and you base everything off of theirs then that gets pretty difficult due to the fact that each relationship is different. When you got through life not seeing the other person or being blind for that matter then you are missing out on the most important thing there is to look forward too, and that's completing that empty space that you have that hasn't been completed yet.
Have you ever stopped or took the time to think about what you want in life or the things that have happened. People go through life being hurt or getting hurt and don't understand that this is part of life to be honest this is how we learn. We get knocked done to get back up and learn from that mistake or issue that's happened as hand or that moment. People have to learn and I did that words or not everything in a relationship or when you promise something to some one, actions speak louder then words. If you do nothing but run your mouth and nothing to back up then basically your blowing air and have nothing to back it up... this is a big issue, this is what ends a lot of friendships, relationships, families etc. This leads to trust and trust leads to being happy but this is not the way we as humans work. We take trust and abuse it in any way possible till it's to late to try to fix it or until we fight to o end to realize your fighting a losing battle.
There are some wars that we fight through life and this war is within us, not with other people but with yourself. This war can cost us everything and every one... To point that we don't know what to do and we feel lost. This can break down the most stubborn person to a point of ignorance because they didn't know what was done until their eyes are open. There are things within yourself that you must realize.
I want you to think about something, what's the longest you have been in pain or hurt? What is the worst pain you have ever been in and I don't mean pain, pain. I mean emotional pain. The last 21 days have been the hardest for me due to the fact I got slapped with reality hard. living in your own little word it not the best route to take do to the fact that you get stuck there and don't see what is really going on until that one thing comes at you and makes you realize that it's not worth it in the end.
When you finally come to reality you realize it's not as easy as you expected it to be specially when things start to go down hill. When that happens you then realize that you are now being tested to see how you hold up to the pressure of being a parent, grown-up, as well as other things. It's not easy but if you take the time to sit down and plan it all out then you might have a change to make it through the rough times that are waiting for you.
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I posted this in the wrong area. It was suppose to go in the Members' Diary section
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