It seems that whenever a guy is attracted to me, they seem to want to move so fast. I want to get to know them better, but they are saying they love me in the first few days of meeting me. I know they are infatuated, but I am surprised that even men who are older than me and have been married before don't seem to know the difference. I don't see how you can love someone before you even know the most basic things about them. I don't know what it is, maybe something about my personality draws them in. I want to find something long-lasting, not fleeting or shallow. How do I find a guy who understands this and doesn't want to move at warp speed?