Living without a sense of belonging is a death sentence. You may suggest a lot of things but can't den this: I can't make somebody like me or make myself appeal to anyone, because that's on them. There doesn't seem to be anyone that's willing to treat me as something besides an outcast. And don't tell me to accept my loneliness because there is no reason to live if I can't make it go away. So what benefits does living without a sense of belonging provide?