guys will yell out slut and other obscenities when they feel low or threatened, like if you turn a guy down, he'll say something like slut or lesbian or whatever to make him feel better...some men think they are entitled to the world and you should bow down to them as they talk to you
its an ego thing, it makes them feel good to put down others....
I'm not the most pretty girl on the block and I'm obese but it doesn't stop the idiots from flocking to me and they expect that because I'm obese and maybe don't have alot of choice in love that I should just be grateful the asswhipe gave me some attention...
apparently though they aren't all like that...don't know where they are hiding though:hiding:
You're right it is an ego thing, they're projecting their unconscious superiority(illusory superiority). The ego is driven by the unconscious.
Similarly to when Jesus was being crucified he said "Forgive them for they know not what they do"...
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110602055228AAb8AqS
When I was younger I was much more judgmental and ego driven but as I got older(not like I'm an old man or anything lol) I became more compassionate, much much judgmental and understanding of people from all walks of life.
They were driven by their ego which made them ignorant to how being rude makes another person feel.
It's like when a car full of young guys yells obscene things at a younger obese women it's along the lines of ingroup superiority, individuals will look for any reason no matter how insignificant to prove why their group is superior, sadly this improves their self esteem.
Oddly enough morning rush I just wrote that part about obese without reading the latter half of your message about being obese yourself. It's sad how superficial this world has become, media is largely to blame and all of the ego driven people...
If want check out the song playing god "next time you point the finger I'll point you to the mirror" their judgments are just a reflection of themselves, to blame you so they can feel better about themselves.
I''d bet you're quite pretty morning rush :hug: and more importantly you have a good heart
I'm hiding out waiting to be found but unfortunately it may be too late for me...:hiding: