So just this morning I reassured a new SFer that since we're all "birds of a feather" here, they were unlikely to ever need to dodge the dreaded put-off, "think positive!". Naturally, within a few hours of my assertion, I'm seeing this sort of thing pop up all over the place. :sigh: So, I thought it might be fun to start a thread recording all of the many well-intentioned but annoyingly useless things you DON'T need to hear when you are at your lowest. I'll start: "Think happy thoughts!" "Get over yourself!" "Are you doing this for attention?" Anyone care to add?