I know a girl who was raped by a father figure. She is in her teens. One time, she didn't cry during being raped. He said" you don't cry today, you must like it." She is feeling guilty. Thinking that she might have liked it. That she is a bad person. I listened to her -- told her I thought this was a "head trip" and that it was NOT HER FAULT. That she did not choose this. But, she's still suicidal. What can I say to her? She's looking to me to explain why sometimes she cried and sometimes not. Why sometimes it hurt and sometimes it didn't. She's so young, it's hard to explain to her that this was PART of the abuse and manipulation. Any ideas?