Please someone answer me this. How do some guys stand going around from one girl to another and not caring about the girl they are with? I guess you can say I fell a bit for one jerk, and even though there was no real commitment, I found myself completely faithful to this jerk in anything, never lied to him, and treated him well....I have a lot of guy friends and am always surrounded by them at work, but still my mind was focused on this one jerk. What is it about some guy's brains that can't do this?? Please anyone enlighten me. Is it because girls are looking for a relationship? Someone to love them whereas some guys are just wondering when will their next lay be? I tend to find these guys immature. I've seen married guys with kids and they are able to be normal, but some guys just don't have it. Why??? I'm not tearing down on all guys, just some. I would like to hear other people's opinions on why guys don't devote a lot of effort into a relationship of any sort with the opposite sex. Doesn't have to be romantic, but is all some guys think about girls is sex and if not that they just drop them and go on to the next girl who would put out???