Wheter we like it or not, we can't choose our parents. But we can learn to appreciate them. It can be awful feeling that your parents don't understand you. More than that, in some cases it really is the case because their goals and beliefs are aligned very differently from yours. Coping with the realities of thinking, feeling, and believing differently from your parents is challenging but you're you, and that's what counts ultimately. Boo recommend this book LOLZ. So my question is : What Sort Of Relationship Did You Have With Your Parents?