There's a movie site I go to, and we post pics on each others' walls. So I posted a gothic pic of a woman with pink hair and stuff...so one of the persons didn't like it. She sent me this message: Don't know how you could have posted on my wall when you have not logged in on the site for 3 days. I am thinking it is some hacker, so am deleting the post. Please only post art and beauty, clean funny stuff on my wall, representing the ideal woman, not making her look slutty. Thank you. I replied that I did post that pic and that I was there. And I asked what did she consider beautiful because I thought what I posted is beautiful. So she replied: Sorry, I just don't want breasts that barely hide the nipples, just flaunting female flesh on my wall. Not my thing. But I do love nudity in Art. Classic Art in particular. So I thought okay....so I searched for an appropriate pic that she might like. I wanted to post it and ask her if that is what she liked But before I could post it, I noticed that she wasn't on my friends list...so I asked her about it and this is what she said to me: Of course not. Did you ever send me a friend request? Even if you had been on my list, why would I do that? But I must say, my dear, you are not making yourself very endearing for a person to want on their friends list. lol If I were to post something on someone's wall they objected to, I would express my sincere regrets and try to figure out what they liked and post that on their wall. Not stand up in defiance of them. Even if you had been on my list - I do accept "friend" requests at random as this is not facebook - you strike me now as the kind of person who would delete it yourself and then try to put the other person on the defensive just to get a perverse sense of power. Maybe you could check out books from the library on the psychology of making friends? Books on developing social skills? Good luck. WHAT THE HELL???? When did I suddenly because this evil person who doesn't care and is mean?????? Is that what everyone thinks of me?