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What to do if u're dead inside?

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Hi guys. What to do if your past is hunting you and you can't come to terms with your life because of complexes from your childhood? Will your past ever be an obstacle on the way to happiness and peace of mind?
I am tired of running. I'm tired of not belonging. I wanna stop. I long to belong. I wanna love and be loved. I wanna need and be needed. I'm really tired.


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You need to stand up to your bad memories, face your fears and put it all behind you. It will always be a scar inside you but you can make it smaller and move on. Find new things to think about, live and love. Take care, Ally x


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My past haunted me for more years than I care to think about.
A good psychotherapist helped me come to terms with so much of it, that I feel it no longer rules my present life.

I won't say that everything is eradicated or there is a miracle cure, like Allo said the scars are still there, but the way it used to dominate my life and colour everything I thought and did this has passed.

The past needs to be sorted out, faced and moved on from.
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