As few, or perhaps none of you know; i do not know my birth father. i was adopted by the man i call 'dad' when i was born, and he married my mother so i wouldnt be born out of wedlock(a stupid catholic sin)
now, the guy that adopted me, tried to molest me when i was 14 and has subsequently denied it when i confronted him about it(long story) but i still see him regularly (av. twice a month) and its as if my accusation never happened.
but i am starting to consider meeting my birth father.. i want to meet him, see if he is in anyway interested in me. who i am etc.
but i know these trials can be tough. i dunno, its a twisted path. i am also (stupidly) concerned for hurting my adoptive dads feelings for going to find my real dad.
i know i shouldnt considering what he did. but i still am......
any guidance? or words of advice? :unsure:
now, the guy that adopted me, tried to molest me when i was 14 and has subsequently denied it when i confronted him about it(long story) but i still see him regularly (av. twice a month) and its as if my accusation never happened.
but i am starting to consider meeting my birth father.. i want to meet him, see if he is in anyway interested in me. who i am etc.
but i know these trials can be tough. i dunno, its a twisted path. i am also (stupidly) concerned for hurting my adoptive dads feelings for going to find my real dad.
i know i shouldnt considering what he did. but i still am......
any guidance? or words of advice? :unsure: