My boyfriend recently found out that I've been self harming and well, wants me to quit. Say's that I should be able to do it for him kinda thing but, I don't feel like it works that way and I'm having a really hard time lately not doing it as I've had seriously bad downward spirals lately. I don't know what to tell him, I don't want to loose him but he keeps demanding I stop and its making me feel really pathetic that I can't seem to. What can I do? It's not as if I can hide the cuts and every time I try to quit I feel like I'm loosing my mind... Just looking for some advice, maybe someone else has been through the same thing I dont know?