Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by yursomedicated, Nov 11, 2009.
what would you do for the person you loved?
drive across country?
if you are talking about my daughter i would give my life for her i would do anything.
My partner came to the other side of the world for me, not just across country.
ive no idea what i would do for someone i loved. Tough one!
I know alot of people would say it. But if I truely loved the person, I'd do anything. And I honestly mean A-N-Y-T-H-I-N-G.
Not even wash one spoon.
Anything. Say what you want, but nobody could name something I wouldn't do.
I would do for him what he cannot do for himself. Everything else, I leave to him to do because it builds his personal strength needed to get by in this world. I do the same with my kids.
Once, when my daughter was being mistreated in another state and I had no money, I found a way for her to get a bus ticket home. It is scary when one does not have resources when they are so badly needed.
In reference to a girlfriend. I would do ANYTHING for her. Most people say they would die for someone, but it's too easy for me to say that. So I would live for her.
In the past I have literally done anything for people I have loved. I'm killing myself right now (not literally - or perhaps literally and slowly?) for my dad whom I love, who is my primary abuser. I'm not doing it out of complete altruism, I'm not that nice, but I'm doing it. However, I've learned from past relationships that I won't put anything more into one (including friendships) than the other person is willing to put in. Its just hard for me, sometimes, to see that these "friends" are honestly not putting anything in. With age, reality has set in. Do unto others what you would have them do unto you - but for godssake don't do it if they're not doing it back. I think "turn the other cheek" doesn't mean using it to get hit again.
Anything to keep them alive and happy.
I'd give them an organ to keep them alive.
For my daughter I would die if it would save her from any harm. I would also live for her as she is the main thing that keeps me here. That's the one that gets hard at times.
I'd die for her.
It's hard to say what I would do for someone, so instead I'll say the biggest lenght I ever went.
I went to see my girlfriend act at a play while I was in absolute chronic and unhealable physical pain caused by my (then) recent Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.
I'd live for her
I wouldnt die for her..
I got into an arguement before over this...
Its nothing complex. I wouldnt want her to die for me nor would i want to die for her. I just see it as being truly selfish to ask someone to die for me. It may be like the ultimate expression of devotion or whatever but to me it make me feel like a selfish SOB for asking someone to do that for me so in return i refuse to die as well.
Ive done pretty much anything for someone i loved and it backfired because he commited suicide. So now id do what i think is right for someone but i wouldnt bend over backwards for someone because more times than not you get nothing in return.
I would try to do everything in their best interest.
i would die for my husband