So many posts at the moment telling people to 'pull themselves together' or 'stop wallowing' or many other things that basically equate to that. They are popping up everywhere, and it's really getting to me. If it was that easy then no one would be ill, no one would need sites like this, and many other things would not exist. I fight daily to try and make it through, to make things better for myself, but it doesn't happen. However hard I try, be it with professionals, changing my circumstances, looking for reasons to live, trying to move forward, it doesn't make things better, however much I yearn and fight for it. I feel like a failure because I can't 'pull myself together' and have everything hunky dory. Believe me, I do everything I can to make things better for myself, yet it doesn't work. These posts might help some people, but personally they make me feel shed loads worse. Hmm, is this wallowing? Maybe. I don't even know anymore.