Hey guys. I think I have a problem. I'm not sure if its me or him or what. It seems like I'm never happy for long in my relationship. Like one day I think he is the one and I love him. And then the rest of the week I end up resenting him. I get aggravated so easy and we fight a lot over little things. Well I'm usually the one that fighting but the only reason I really fight with him is because he will reassure me of his love and is sweeter to me when I am mad. I really don't want to be mad 24 7 for him to be sweet to me. I guess I need constant reassurance of love so maybe it is me. But he is very blunt person and can say hurtful things just because he is thinking it. He also has no common sence and that makes me even more mad. And he doesn't call me as much as I want him to. He might call me once or twice a day. And we don't hang out much. We go to the same College and are in the same program and he is a class ahead of me. That helps me a lot so I guess I have been staying with him for convenience. But I don't know. I wish my grandma was still alive to tell me what to do. I think I need a psychic. Any thoughts? P.S. - I want a guy that I can look at everyday that gives me feelings of love and security. I want to look up to him and respect him fully. I want to know that he is always going to be there for me and never intentionally hurt me. Is that even possible to feel like that towards someone??