Discussion in 'The Coffee House' started by Boratz, Oct 7, 2008.
Just curiousity. To me it does'nt really matter.
you ARE loved :heart:
Often times we think we are not loved and we really are.
no matter how hard we try push people away, to try and isolate ourselves you will always find someone who will care.. someone who will always love you.. maybe you just havent found them yet... :hug:
When your feelings are ignored.
You know you're not loved when no one notices you exist. If you're noticed, chances are you're loved.
When you call a hotline and they put you on hold.
:laugh: (if they had a sad laugh face that would be more appropriate)
That is terrible. It has happened to me and I know it has happened to others. I just have to laugh at how crazy it is that they can put someone in crisis on hold.
That is madness.
:cry:'hi, I'm desperate, I'm about to-'
'please hold. Your call is important to us~'
It obviously does matter to you or else you would not have made this post. However, I've seen many of your rude posts around these forums and your problem is obvious. You go thru life acting arrogant and rude and pretending you don't care what others think but on the inside the truth is you're sad that people don't like you. I do not feel sorry for you. The way you act and treat others and their reaction to you because of it is 100 percent in your control. You choose to act the wrong way. Nothing will change until you change.
Bit harsh right u r ken, people deal with things in different ways, getting agressive towards them is going to be rather counter productive. You shouldn't judge people when you don't know what they're going through and all that...if you don't feel sypathy that's fine, at least show a level of empathy.
when ppl around you refuse to acknowledge your there and hurt you
And where were you when he was rude to me? And to others here? Like I said, he has many rude posts here. And he's "Under Moderation"for a reason. You shouldn't go around blindly defend someone. Especially someone that doesn't deserve it. He is not a victim. He deals out rudeness, arrogrance, and insults. He has not earned any sympathy. Not mine, not yours.
You can't just decide someone 'doesn't deserve it', ever hear of forgiveness? And it's not so much blindly defending someone as remembering that this is a support forum, not somewhere to make people feel unwelcome, however they treated you. How do you figure responding to rudeness with defensiveness is going to help? That's all I'm saying. You're right, I don't know what happened between you and him, but come on...it's in the past. No need to bring it up in a different topic...he doesn't deserve to be chased round the forum by someone who appears to be looking to start something, whether you are or not at least see that's how it looks. I don't mean to be rude to you here it's just annoying how people have been flaring up at each other on here
we should be one big happy family... noone is perfect...
When people don't listen to you, they just impatiently await their chance to talk.
When people ignore you or act like they hate to be around you.